Stating that tantrums can become very manipulative, Prof. Dr. “If a child learns that such a show will get the parents to accept their demands, they will turn into adults who make demands on their spouse in adulthood,” said William Moiser.
Providing advice to parents about children’s tantrums, Prof. Stating that a positive role should be played, Moiser said: “Avoid letting your child see or hear that you exhibit tantrums. If your child has tantrums in public, it’s best to ignore them. Despite the glances you will get from other people, it would be wise not to give in to a tantrum or bribe the child to stop. To minimize the risk of tantrums occurring, have clear rules about what behavior is expected in public places. For example, let your child choose certain items and put them in the shopping cart. ”
Emphasizing that if the child does not harm himself, someone else or the property, the tantrum should be ignored, Prof. “This is the hardest, but if your goal is to prevent future tantrums from occurring, it is imperative to ignore tantrums. If the child is hurting someone else or their belongings, I can’t physically hug the child and say, ‘I can’t let you hurt or hurt you. That’s why you should say ‘I’ll hold you until I understand that it won’t hurt you’ he used expressions.
Stating that humor can be used to prevent tantrums, Prof. “Usually remind your child something to smile about. When you see that your child is starting to feel disappointed in public, try it. Comment on the tantrum by saying that you understand that the child is upset. Ask the child to remember what caused the tantrum. Offer him an alternative way to deal with the situation next time. You can even reenact the situation to help the child practice alternative behavior, ”he said.
Stating that his tantrum would stop when ignored, Prof. “If you focus your attention on the child during a tantrum, you will increase the likelihood of future tantrums occurring. “Any verbal interaction with the child during a tantrum will be a positive reinforcer for more tantrums.”
Stating that the way children react to their tantrums will determine the type and frequency of disciplinary problems encountered in adolescence, Prof. “There is no such thing as a generation gap between parents and young people. It is a communication gap that occurs during tantrums in early childhood, which we think of the abyss. “A Child Development Specialist must understand these concepts to translate child development concepts into developmentally appropriate ways for parents and teachers to interact with children,” he said.